Other Stress Relievers

Stress, pressure, tension is a fact of everyday life for most of us.  Remember that it puts you at risk for heart attack, stroke, insomnia, backache, headache, irritable bowel syndrome, sports injuries and infertility. 

Stress can trigger serious illness like Graves' and fibromyalgia.  Stress even makes us more susceptible to the common cold. With your health at stake, it is essential to use some of the methods we have discussed.  Also, it's important that you remember that stress is a physiological response.  It isn't all in your head!  You owe it to yourself to take the time to use the stress-reducing techniques on a daily basis.

Here are additional keys to stress reduction to help you open the door to a more relaxing life.  They contain dozens of additional helpful hints.  Choose those best suited for you.

Breathe deeply.  Relax your muscles, expanding your stomach and chest.  Exhale slowly.  Repeat several times. Follow your breath as it flows in and out.  Do not try to control it.  This is a good way to relax in the midst of any activity.  This technique allows you to find a breathing pattern that is natural and relaxing to you.

Exercise regularly.  Aerobic exercise, such as walking and swimming, produces brain chemicals that uplift your mood and mental well-being.  Exercise also improves sleep and gives you time to think and focus on other things. Beware of compulsive exercise, however.

Eat healthy foods.  You should never skip meals.  Take time out for lunch no matter how busy you are. Carry nutritious snacks to the office, or even the shopping mall.  A nutritionally balanced diet is important.  For example, researchers have found that even small deficiencies of thiamin, a B-complex vitamin, can cause anxiety symptoms.  Pantothenic acid, another B-complex vitamin, is critical during times of stress. Avoid caffeine, alcohol, and large amounts of sweets, which can aggravate symptoms of stress.

Don't let others get you down. Choose positive friends who  are not worriers.  Friends who constantly put you down or talk gloomily about life will increase your anxiety. Ask a good friend to help you talk out a problem and get it off your chest.  A long-distance call to an old pal can be great therapy.

Forgive others instead of holding grudges.  Relax your standards - for yourself and others.  Perfectionism is not the way to happiness.  Become more flexible.

Communicate clearly with your co-workers and boss.  Ask questions.  Repeat instructions that you are given.  Clarifying directions at the start of a project can save hours later straightening out misunderstandings.

Be truthful with others.  Lies and deception lead to stress that always takes it toll.

Be optimistic.  Count your blessings, especially when everything seems to go wrong.   Believe that most people are doing the best that they can.

Don't blow problems out of proportion.  Live by a philosophy of life that whittles problems down to size.  The maxim, "Live one day at a time," has helped millions.

Plan your time wisely.  And realistically.  For example, don't schedule back-to-back meetings with tight travel time.  Remember to leave room for unanticipated events - both negative and positive.  Be flexible about rearranging your agenda. Get up 15 minutes early in the morning.  Allow an extra 15 minutes to get to all appointments.

Avoid procrastination.  Whatever needs doing, do it now.  Schedule unpleasant tasks early, so that you won't have to worry about them for the rest of the day.

Keep an appointment book.   Don't rely on your memory.

Do one thing at a time.  Focus your attention on the person talking to you or the job at hand, instead of worrying about other things.   This also reduces mistakes --- which lead to more anxiety.

Be prepared to wait.  Carry a book to read in case of delays. Say "no" to requests that stretch you to the limits.

Delegate.  You don't have to do it all yourself.  Break a job into separate tasks and assign them to people with the appropriate skills.  Then leave them alone to do their work.

Prevent problems before they occur.  This takes some planning. If you are flying to another city for an important meeting, carry your presentation materials and dress suit on board the plane.  Baggage does get lost. Buy gas for the car before the tank is empty.  Get regular oil changes and checkups. Keep food staples on hand so you can fix a fast meal without going to the store. Keep food, toilet paper and toiletries on hand so you never run out.  The same goes for postage stamps, paper and envelopes. Keep duplicate keys for home, car and office in secure locations.

Retreat to recharge your spirit.  Schedule private time every day.  You deserve it.  Unplug the telephone and enjoy a quiet evening alone or with your family, or even 15 uninterrupted minutes in the shower or bathtub. You may want to spend a few minutes writing your feelings out in a journal.  It can help you find a new perspective and relieve hidden conflicts.

Knowing that you are striving toward your dreams relieves frustrations that mount when you feel stuck in a rut of endless responsibilities that seem to lead nowhere. 

Even if you only use these keys to stress relief, you can become a happier, healthier person, a more efficient worker and a better friend to others.  Keep a notebook as new ideas come to you through your reading and your own creativity.  The most important key is your decision to take time for yourself and to simplify your life whenever possible.